There are a number of signs that will become apparent if your wife is cheating on you. Not necessarily all will be present, but a number of these telltales will be there.
Here’s the thing, my friend, that I can tell you as an older dude (56) who has been around awhile. The signs are going to be there if she is, in fact, cheating on you. You just won’t want to see them if you’re still in love with the lady.
You’re going to quite possibly be blinded by your feelings for her and be in a state of denial that you’ll remain in until the evidence is just too great to ignore.
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Now here are some of the signs of a cheating wife (or girlfriend) you want to be looking for if you do suspect your woman is straying:
1) She starts “going out with the girls” more often than before, and the frequency may be increasing with time
2) She’s spending more money than before … she could be wining & dining someone else on your nickel, my friend.
3) She’s not as needy as she may have been … If she suddenly doesn’t need your company as much as she used to for simple day-to day activities, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It’s possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she’s unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she’s just no longer as needy… of you.
4) She’s started being more secretive … She’s doesn’t share her daily events with you like she used to, and in order to find out what she’s doing, you’d have to hack into her cell phone because she’s not volunteering any information regarding what’s happening in her life.
5) The classic repeated number of hangups if you happen to answer her phone … or if she makes a big deal out of you listening in inadvertantly on her phone conversations.
Dude, you gotta be willing to “wake up and smell the coffee” … if she’s cheating on you the signs of a cheating wife will be there and you must be willing to see them, the sooner the better.
